There is no crisis that we go through except that it has a solution. This is a principle upon which the nature of dealing with every problem and crisis is based. There is no matter that saddens us except that something will come that will make us happy. It was reported from the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and his family): If hardship came and entered this hole, ease would come and enter it and bring it out. And from Imam Ali (peace be upon him): For every worry there is relief. Every hardship has a way out, wise people are always part of the solution while some people become part of the problem, and here lies the secret of the speed of the crisis's disappearance and the radical end of the problem or not ...

So that we can live our lives with relative happiness and stability, we put in your hands five valuable and important tips that will help you solve your problems:

First: Diagnose the problem: The first step is to identify the problem and confront it no matter how bitter and affecting it is. Self, and avoid escaping from confrontation or justification or throwing the problem on another party, and in order to be able to identify the problem and face the truth, prepare for this matter by sitting in a quiet place away from others, and using writing on paper to narrate the details of the problem you are facing, and then think carefully and carefully to investigate the causes and reasons, then write that down, explaining to yourself the factors that led to its emergence; This will help you to understand the problem and clarify its source and causes in a precise and unambiguous manner.

Beware of sympathizing with yourself while thinking, and be strict, neutral and objective, and be detached while writing down the problem; so that you do not fall into the illusion of causes and factors, and thus the problem becomes confusing to you and you do not succeed in identifying it.

Second: Be logical in choosing solutions: After identifying the problem and diagnosing it, you must use your mind, free from your emotions, to find solutions. The solutions must be feasible, as this is an important condition in this basic step, which requires high concentration; because it will become clear to you whether you will succeed in solving this problem or not?

The best strategy to follow in determining logical solutions is to inventory and count: (the positives and negatives) that will result from your decision.

Solutions must be characterized by the possibility of uprooting the problem from its roots, even gradually, and must not be characterized as being temporary and temporary, so that the problem returns after the temporary solutions disappear and then reappears again; therefore, one must think logically and seriously to develop appropriate permanent solutions.

Third: Do not be satisfied with your solutions and involve those you trust: Imam Ali said (He who is tyrannical in his opinion will perish, and he who consults men will share their minds). In another news (...and no one regrets consulting (

Loyal friends are like a protection device that protects other devices from damage. As soon as we communicate with them for the purpose of consultation and involving them in what we seek to take as a decision to resolve a specific crisis, they take the initiative to provide the best solutions and guidance they can to protect our decisions from confusion and failure.

So they are the best people we need to face difficult circumstances; they may have capabilities and skills that we lack in this field, and they can Help us.

Fourth: Do not let despair make you lose hope of finding a final solution: Despair is a plague that destroys positive energy; and our failure to reach a solution should not make us frustrated; for the believer is only increased by trials, determination, and resolve to move forward towards achieving truth and goodness and emerging from crises with his head held high, because "the control of sadness and depression over you, and the loss of hope in reaching the appropriate solution"; does not solve the problem, but rather increases its complexity, and patience is the strength that makes us safe from retreat and frustration And sadness, Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: (With patience, desires are achieved), and from him (peace be upon him): (With patience, the highest matters are achieved).

Fifth: Training the soul and preparing it to face crises and deal with them: The individual must prepare and develop himself to adapt to crises; Because life is based on calamity and crises, unless the individual is armed and possesses the qualifications and skills, he will be a victim of failure and frustration and will be consumed by despair, and that is why Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: (The decisive person is the one who has been seasoned by experiences and refined by misfortunes).

Several things help the individual to develop and improve himself in facing crises and problems:

• Reading useful books and purposeful stories.

• Expanding the circle of social relationships and getting to know new mature friends.

• Accompanying scholars, benefiting from their words, and getting close to people who are characterized by wisdom and intelligence, and who have many experiences and expertise.

• Benefiting from lectures and guidance from human development experts in the art of solving problems.